Bloggy business cards

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Since I've lately gone to all the trouble to actually purchase "real" URL's for my two blogs, and have also started to attend more BlogHer/DFW Blogger meetups, it appears the time has come for me to actually order blog business cards.

I do plan to attend the BlogHer conference in 2010, so might as well get ready now!! I've also really appreciated other bloggers having cards at our meetup events, and I do realize how difficult it is to remember www.conscientiousconfusion.com and how to spell it! I especially like the design of the cards I've received from Crazy Says What and Chirky.com. Since I am not a designer myself, I've just picked a template design from VistaPrint.com.

Here is my question: should I put an email address on my cards? My initial thought was no, because I know at some of the events there are vendors collecting cards, and after working in email marketing myself for 5 years before my current job, I know they often use those cards to build their non-permission-based email lists. I know I can set up a special box for my blog email with more robust filtering, but I really like to get blog feedback right away on my iPhone so I can monitor comments, etc. I'd hate for the spam to start coming to my iPhone.

A related question: If I do include an email address, which domain to use? This one or afamilyisus.com? Then there is always the option of setting up a whole new Gmail address neutral to both. So many choices!! I hope someone sends me some feedback on this soon! I'd love to order the cards to arrive before next week's DFW BlogHer meetup at Charming Charlie's!

Green Kitty Litter FAIL

Wednesday, July 08, 2009

It was around this time last year that I thought I had finally found a "green" kitty litter that met all the criteria needed. It was biodegradable, the tracking was not bad, it actually contained odor (most "green" litters do not contain odor, I don't care what their bags or web sites say), and the cats approved....Well, I thought the cats approved.

About 2 months after converting to "World's Best Cat Litter", one of the cats began pooping directly in front of the box. Every day. Not anywhere else in the house, only right in front of the box. Right in front of the entrance to the box. Not like "oh, I couldn't find the box". This was intentional. Whoever it was peed in the box with no problems, and presumably pooped at least one other time a day inside the box, but always first thing in the morning, right in front of the box.

After 3 months of this we took Gabby to the vet to see if she was sick, we thought for sure it was her (she is always "the bad one" because she can be vengeful). The vet basically said, maybe they don't like the litter, but he had never heard of this happening and there is nothing wrong with her physically. We paid $70 for there to be nothing wrong with her, which I already knew because she was acting completely normally. I thought, surely not the litter, because she had been using this litter 2 months or more before this problem even came up.

This continued for another 4 months. Sometimes getting better, but most of the time it was consistent - every day, one poop outside the box. When I became pregnant, I couldn't clean the litter box anymore (something about cat feces is dangerous to unborn fetuses, apparently). Every day I had to call Christian over to pick up the poop, because now I also have this super sense of smell. I can smell the uncovered poop from anywhere in the house. Sometimes Christian was gone and I had to put on gloves and a face mask to remove it myself (he does not want me doing this so I tried not to...but sometimes the smell was so bad!).

One day, a breakthrough - Christian caught Samantha doing it! She was the culprit all along, not Gabby! After that, I caught her a few times too, and we tried disciplining her when she did it. She absolutely did not care and kept it up. She even did it at my parents' house when they stayed there during our trip to DC. We didn't take her to the vet because she had recently had her annual physical and there was nothing wrong with her. At this point she'd been doing this for almost a year. If there was something physically wrong with her, she would have shown other signs by this time.

Finally we switched one of the two litter boxes back to the old Arm & Hammer "kill the earth" will-never-biodegrade cat litter. They both completely quit using the "green" litter and resorted to using only the one box with Arm & Hammer. This was not fun because the box needed to be cleaned twice as often. So we had to switch both boxes to the Arm & Hammer.

Now we are back to killing the earth, but the pooping in front of the box has pretty much stopped (there was one relapse during the time when there was one box of each litter).

The moral of this story is that the "green" way, as much as we want it to work, just will not always work. I have now tried every brand of "green" litter in the stores here and none of them both control odor and are acceptable to my cats. "World's Best Cat Litter" was the best performing, and I stand by that, but the cats would not accept it.

Since I don't exactly want to be picking up loose poop for the rest of our lives, I am just going to have to accept the conventional clumping litter. Which is too bad, because the conventional litter is so much heavier and the tracking is so much worse than the "green" litter was.

You can leave comments suggesting other brands if you want, but to be honest, I am really not going to try to acclimate the cats to another kind of litter and endure the horrible odor and the pooping everywhere in these last few months of my pregnancy, especially since I can't clean it up myself.

Sorry, earth :-(

Happy 4th of July!

Saturday, July 04, 2009

We went to see fireworks at Addison Kaboomtown last night (July 3). If you've never been, I recommend it! It's a long show, and well coordinated to the music on 100.3 (whatever station that is).
We did make the mistake of watching from the main parking garage, and then it took an hour to get out of that parking garage. Our car's battery died (some kind person gave us a jump - thanks!), I had run out of water, it was hot, and the fumes from the other cars were making me sick so we went downstairs to wait while Christian waited in line to get the car out of the garage. There were a lot of drunk kids who did not appear to be old enough to drink. I am sure they were, and I am just really, really old. But in case anyone has forgotten, no one is as smart or funny when they are drunk as they think they are at the time. I know this because I was sober and I had to listen to them speak to one another. I think I lost IQ points just listening to them. So glad I am not in that life stage anymore...

Happy 4th of July!

Drool: NatureMill Composter

Wednesday, July 01, 2009

Let me first confess: I have killed yet another plant. We bought one at the White Rock Local Market and I was very faithfully watering it every single day, just as instructed. It looked worse and worse and now it is completely dead. This is a big problem I have with doing the "green" thing and growing my own veggies or, honestly, growing anything edible. I kill them all. I can grow chrysanthemums and roses, that is it. Anything more than that dies.

I have managed to kill: ivy, cactus, and bamboo. All of which are supposed to be impossible NOT to grow, and impossible to kill. I beg to differ. I apologize to their little spirits.

How does this bring me to composting? Well, things grow in compost. Maybe compost would keep me from killing things. Who knows? Either way, we eat a lot of plant matter, being vegetarian, and I feel bad that I have to throw it all away. A friend of mine just got a lovely spinner composter thingy for the backyard. It reminded me that I really wish I could compost.

For a while I was doing vermi-composting, which was a good idea in theory. However, it seems that the extreme heat of summer kills the worms, and even the mild cold of winter here also kills them. That leaves only a few months they will live here in Texas. And forget about bringing them inside. I know they say you can do it, but "they" apparently haven't 1) smelled the odor, 2) dealt with the worm juice that comes out the bottom, or 3) lived in space as small as ours that makes #1 and #2 big deals. Not to even mention what the cats would do with the box, which would probably be indistinguishable from their litter box if the lid came open, and therefore be used for the same purpose.

This is my dream composter:

It is the NatureMill Plus under-the-sink, does-everything-for-you composter. * drool *
You just scrape your stuff in there and it turns it and makes the most lovely compost that just comes right out the other end perfectly.
It is also like $300. Which is why it has been on the "wish list" for years.
Check out how happy these people are with it:
They look totally thrilled!!
I am just saying, if anyone at NatureMill wants me to review their product for free...I will do it! I will review the heck out of that thing!!

Update on URL redirect issues

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

I hope I didn't lose anyone in the transition to the new URL... we bought the A Family Is Us URL from Network Solutions and it worked great, but we bought Conscientious Confusion from my husband's web hosting company. There seem to be issues with his hosting company and redirecting to Blogger, while also preserving my custom posting addresses (which seem to be where I get a lot of my traffic).

For several days, if you tried to reach the blog via anything but directly typing the URL, it went into a permanent loop. I think this might also have affected my publication to feed burners/RSS readers. When I tried to fix that, the actual URL itself stopped working...thanks, Liz, for letting me know! I saw my traffic go down to, uh, ZERO, for about 4 days.

If you happen to get Conscientious Confusion posts via a feed burner or RSS feed, can you let me know if 1) you are still getting the posts (like this one), and 2) if you can click to the blog from your feed, or do you get an error?

The moral of this story might be, Network Solutions is worth the extra $10-$20! Seems like the $10 URL is exactly what you pay for...

We have URL!

Thursday, June 25, 2009

I have finally purchased a "real" URL for this blog! We are now www.conscientiousconfusion.com ! Of course, the root location of the blog is still on Blogger, so the blogspot address works as well. Now isn't it so much easier to remember the www?

Some would say no, it's the word "conscientious" that is the problem. But I have accepted no one can spell it. I am working on business cards to help you out with that. I like the word! So there. :-)

Movie: Food, Inc.

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

If you live in a larger city where this movie might come to theaters, I would recommend that everyone see "Food, Inc."! If you don't live in a large enough city, put it in your NetFlix queue!

I know what you are thinking "Jenny, I know the food industry is messed up, and isn't this just more of your crazy vegetarian hippie propaganda?". I acknowledge the reticence, allow me to just say a few things. When I went to the movie on Sunday, I had just finished The Omnivore's Dilemma, which, in my review I did admit was quite a beating to slog through, even though ultimately worth it. So when going to this movie I did think to myself: oh great, now I am going to be paranoid some more. And while yes, it is depressing to see the truth about how are food is made (including soy beans - which I probably consume as much of as a meat-eater consumes meat. And eggs, which I also eat), I think it is important to know the facts.

That is part of the reason for this blog - I believe that I have a responsibility to 1) find out the truth about how the things I buy, use, eat, and wear are made, and 2) make decisions about how to spend my time, energy, and money based on how those things are consistent with what I believe is right. Not to live life mindlessly, just taking what is in front of me and never questioning. 1984, anyone? Fahrenheit 451?

This movie tells the truth about how our food is made, and pulls back the veil regarding how 3-4 large corporations actually produce most, if not all, of the food we eat in the United States. And a bonus - if you see this movie, you have basically just read The Way We Eat, Fast Food Nation, and The Omnivore's Dilemma. Most of the main points from those books are in this movie, as well as all the authors - Michael Pollan, Eric Schlosser, and even Joel Salatin from PolyFace Farms (whose farm food we ate while in DC). So you save yourself a lot of time in the 90-something minutes of the film!

The film does not end with despair - it simply reiterates the idea I want to continue to promote: that the things we buy and the way we eat, are all a "vote" to the companies out there as to what they should produce. So, here's the trailer, now go see this movie!

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