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Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Update on URL redirect issues

I hope I didn't lose anyone in the transition to the new URL... we bought the A Family Is Us URL from Network Solutions and it worked great, but we bought Conscientious Confusion from my husband's web hosting company. There seem to be issues with his hosting company and redirecting to Blogger, while also preserving my custom posting addresses (which seem to be where I get a lot of my traffic).

For several days, if you tried to reach the blog via anything but directly typing the URL, it went into a permanent loop. I think this might also have affected my publication to feed burners/RSS readers. When I tried to fix that, the actual URL itself stopped working...thanks, Liz, for letting me know! I saw my traffic go down to, uh, ZERO, for about 4 days.

If you happen to get Conscientious Confusion posts via a feed burner or RSS feed, can you let me know if 1) you are still getting the posts (like this one), and 2) if you can click to the blog from your feed, or do you get an error?

The moral of this story might be, Network Solutions is worth the extra $10-$20! Seems like the $10 URL is exactly what you pay for...

Thursday, June 25, 2009

We have URL!

I have finally purchased a "real" URL for this blog! We are now www.conscientiousconfusion.com ! Of course, the root location of the blog is still on Blogger, so the blogspot address works as well. Now isn't it so much easier to remember the www?

Some would say no, it's the word "conscientious" that is the problem. But I have accepted no one can spell it. I am working on business cards to help you out with that. I like the word! So there. :-)

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Movie: Food, Inc.

If you live in a larger city where this movie might come to theaters, I would recommend that everyone see "Food, Inc."! If you don't live in a large enough city, put it in your NetFlix queue!

I know what you are thinking "Jenny, I know the food industry is messed up, and isn't this just more of your crazy vegetarian hippie propaganda?". I acknowledge the reticence, allow me to just say a few things. When I went to the movie on Sunday, I had just finished The Omnivore's Dilemma, which, in my review I did admit was quite a beating to slog through, even though ultimately worth it. So when going to this movie I did think to myself: oh great, now I am going to be paranoid some more. And while yes, it is depressing to see the truth about how are food is made (including soy beans - which I probably consume as much of as a meat-eater consumes meat. And eggs, which I also eat), I think it is important to know the facts.

That is part of the reason for this blog - I believe that I have a responsibility to 1) find out the truth about how the things I buy, use, eat, and wear are made, and 2) make decisions about how to spend my time, energy, and money based on how those things are consistent with what I believe is right. Not to live life mindlessly, just taking what is in front of me and never questioning. 1984, anyone? Fahrenheit 451?

This movie tells the truth about how our food is made, and pulls back the veil regarding how 3-4 large corporations actually produce most, if not all, of the food we eat in the United States. And a bonus - if you see this movie, you have basically just read The Way We Eat, Fast Food Nation, and The Omnivore's Dilemma. Most of the main points from those books are in this movie, as well as all the authors - Michael Pollan, Eric Schlosser, and even Joel Salatin from PolyFace Farms (whose farm food we ate while in DC). So you save yourself a lot of time in the 90-something minutes of the film!

The film does not end with despair - it simply reiterates the idea I want to continue to promote: that the things we buy and the way we eat, are all a "vote" to the companies out there as to what they should produce. So, here's the trailer, now go see this movie!

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Happy Father's Day!

Happy Father's Day!

Of course, my husband has been a father for 15 years now, but this year he gets to be a father times two!

It was actually just a coincidence that I got him a really neat gift - I had been looking for this for a while and just stumbled across it 2 weeks ago. He has been trying his hand at brewing his own root beer for a while, but the homemade method of carbonating the brew with yeast left something to be desired - his favorite thing is to have a lot of carbonation and yeast carbonation is rather weak. So I had been looking for an inexpensive method of carbonating small batches of soda while he tweaks his recipe.

I found the SodaStream web site just before last weekend, and that same weekend there was a $20 rebate for the SodaStream in our newspaper! I love newspaper coupons!! What's really great is that it is sold locally at Kohl's and Williams-Sonoma, so I didn't have to pay shipping and wait on it.

Anyway, SodaStream is a non-electric little carbonator that uses CO2 cartridges. They market it as "earth-friendly" because you can make your own sodas and soda waters and it supposedly cuts down on waste...I would say that is arguable just because we didn't drink a lot of sodas before, but it's a good idea for people who do, I guess. There is information in the package on how to recycle and get the CO2 cartridges refilled. We have just made our first batch! Since we haven't tried it yet (we are awaiting some friends who are coming over to sample it with us), I can't tell you if it worked, but it sure looks like it so far...

UPDATE: It was very good - and easy, with their flavors! We'll see how easy it is to add your own flavors soon...

Friday, June 19, 2009

The Omnivore's Dilemma: A Natural History of Four Meals

The Omnivore's Dilemma: A Natural History of Four Meals
by Michael Pollan

Of course you realize that, given the topics this blog addresses and the fact that I am a lacto-ovo-pescatarian, I was required by the universe to read this book at some point. I will not pretend taht it was not a beating. That is the word I used often "OMG this is such a beating". It was just so long. Probably because I listened to it in audio book format. But that is how I read long, complicated, thinking-type books. In audio format while I am working.

After all the whining about how long I spent "reading" this book, it was hard for me to go back and really remember the whole thing appropriately enough to review it. It was indeed about 4 meals that the author prepared and traced the origins of each one: a McDonald's meal, a meal from Whole Foods (industrial organic), a meal from a revolutionary form of organic farm (Polyface Farms), and a meal cooked from ingredients all hunted and gathered by the author.

No suprise, the McDonald's meal was mostly all corn. Corn fed the cows, corn composed all the bread products, the drinks were all corn syrup, even the salad dressing and the chicken nuggets were mostly composed of corn and corn syrup. The remainder of the ingredients were composed of petroleum-based products. So, corn and oil. That is what Americans mostly live on. It made me very paranoid about corn.

Then he spent some time following feed lot cattle and pigs and chickens around, which was depressing. Similar stuff to what I read in The Way We Eat, which I reviewed previously.

He wasn't overly enthusiastic about the Whole Foods version of organic, since it is only marginally different from the industrial food process, omitting some of the chemicals but still treating animals questionably and carting foods long distances, using a lot of oil.

I think my favorite part of the book was when he visited Polyface Farms and described how they rotate their animals and crops to fully utilize the land and reuse everything to feed off everything else, eliminating the need for chemicals or dependence on oil or corn. It is probably the most holistic thing I have ever heard of in my life. What made it extra neat to me is that we were able to taste some Polyface products while we were in Washington DC earlier this month. Christian had already read that part of the book, and so he found one of the restaurants that serves Polyface produce and meat and we went there one evening. It was called Liberty Tavern and it was in the most adorable little town, right on a Metro stop. The food was AMAZING. Christian told the waitress we were there to taste Polyface food and the manager even came out and talked to us about this book and how they enjoy using Polyface products. The chefs were kind enough to send us a few extra things to taste as well. It was definitely our favorite and most delicious meal we had while in DC!

The author continues to go on for the longest time about how he went hunting (the "hunting and gathering" fourth meal) and how he felt about it. The way he got so extremely emotionally involved in it really reminded me of this guy I used to date who was very artistic and would get very emotionally involved in things and then write about them. I could not identify with this part and after a while I wanted to hit him upside the head (the author of this book, not my old boyfriend) because I got sick of hearing him go on and on about how traumatic it was to shoot a pig. GET OVER IT. Maybe because I grew up in East Texas, I didn't have much sympathy for it. People shoot things and skin them. Our neighbor skinned several deer right in his front yard several times when I was growing up.

There was also a long section on the ethics of eating meat. He rightly stated that vegetarians and vegans are not exempt from what you might call guilt or implication in supporting unsustainable food production because we do consume a lot of industrial/industrial organic foods including soy and fruits/vegetables, which leave just as much of a footprint as any other food. Just because we don't eat dead animals does not make us less guilty. And of course, I do eat dead fish and also consume the eggs of hens and the milk of cows. I do worry about how those hens and cows are treated. I realize that "cage-free" is just a label and I don't know that these hens are truly happy. Probably they are not. I am pretty sure the cows aren't. Organic milk just means the cows were fed organic corn, not that they were allowed to graze like the Polyface cows are. I wish I had access to milk from grass fed cows, but unfortunately I have not figured out how to accomplish this right now.

So, in the end I enjoyed the perspective, but was glad when the book was finally over. The author didn't advocate veganism as the only truly ethical choice, as the author of "The Way We Eat" did, and I was thankful for that. He simply gave a lot of information and outlined that, as omnivores, that we have a responsibility to find out how our food is produced and to make choices based on that information. He did not take it far enough to offer solutions to the current state of industrial food. In some ways I appreciate that too, because it is overwhelming to think how far off we are, our motivations for doing things the way we do when it comes to food, and how much corporate money is out there resisting any kind of change.

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Texting drama!

A post from a blog I follow had a post on strangers sharing too much information which reminded me of something weird that happened to me last night which, coincidentally, also involved texting.

Last night I am sitting there, minding my own business when I get this text:

"i know u probably hate me an i hope u know i do love him"

I am like, uh, what? I am married, thank the Lord I don't have drama like this in my life anymore. I considered just deleting it, but then I thought, some person out there thinks they have sent something really important and dramatic to someone else and they haven't. I have actually seen this number before on my Missed Calls and I think this person mistypes my phone number a lot.

So I text back:

"i'm afraid u have the wrong #? this is xxx.xxx.xxxx"

I told Christian what happened and he said, oh no, you have just confirmed to some marketer out there that the phone number their computer randomly dialed is a legitimate number and now you are going to get TONS of spam marketing texts. Ack!! I had not thought of this. I was bummed that I fell for it, since I was a spammer myself for a while. I would never have done something like that, but I used to be more aware of the dirty tactics that were used. I was beating myself up a little bit for letting compassion outweigh my common sense when I got another text:

"Is this lisa?"

I answered and she replied and that was the end:

"no ma'am"

"Sorry 2 have bothered u"

Isn't that the weirdest thing ever? I hope it was a "she" since I addressed her as "ma'am". It could very well have been a man, so if it was I hope he was not too offended. And I hope he/she didn't think I really am Lisa but pretending not to be Lisa....And I hope their drama was resolved.

The moral of this story is: watch out who you are texting. Use the Address Book function on your phone rather than typing the recipient's number by memory. You may be sharing your drama with strangers!

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Washington DC photos now up!

Lots of folks have been asking about the photos from our Washington DC trip, and they are finally up on Christian's Flickr. Take a look!
Us under trees by the National Mall:
We took most of them with our new camera - it was very small and handy. Actually, Christian took them. I am not very good at pictures.
Here are some people with their feet in the World War II Memorial even though the sign says not to:
Here is a picture of us eating breakfast at our favorite place, Teaism. I found it on Rachel Ray's $40 A Day and we loved it so much we went 3 times. Wish we had one here in Dallas!
Here we are on the Speaker of the House's private patio at the Capitol, thanks to Robert!
Well, I have to go to the fabric store before working for 4 hours today, so I can't post any more random pics, check them out on Flickr!

Saturday, June 13, 2009

DFW Blogger meetup

Today I attended my second DFW Blogger meetup, which was organized through BlogHer. I really enjoyed the last one, and this time I got to meet more new Bloggers I had never met before, even though we were a smaller group this time. I think a lot of the mom bloggers I met last time are probably on vacation and enjoying their kids' first weeks out of school right now, which is why we didn't see them this time. Hope to see ya'll next time!

We had an interesting discussion today about privacy and self-censoring. We all have different levels of each, and I found it very interesting.

Privacy: Most of the mom bloggers I know don't use their children's real names on their blogs. There are crazy people out there, and I think that's probably a good idea. I am most likely going to adopt that tactic in my family blog once the baby comes along. Some of the bloggers today said they don't use anyone's real names, including their own, their spouses, their friends or even strangers. Some do not post pictures. Anything But Nice had a good post about blog privacy and what it means to her the other day. Others use names and pictures but practice self-censoring when it comes to topical content.

Self-censoring: Involves the opinions we choose to share or not share on our blogs, and how in-depth we go about our own feelings or our private lives. Some blogs are so topic-specific that there isn't much room for personal opinion at all. Some of us share things about our lives but not our personal opinions, in order to avoid taking stance on controversial issues. Other blogs are actually centered around starting a discussion and ask questions to prompt responses. Some bloggers feel comfortable sharing everything about their personal lives, and I definitely have a respect for that. I think you know that I don't do that - I don't talk about my relationship with my husband outside our community group because it would bother him. I don't weigh in personally on "hot button" issues I know most of my readers might feel strongly about, because I know we don't always agree. I'm not going to convince you and you're not going to convince me. The purpose of this blog is not to incite a riot and I don't want to have to delete anyone's comments (although I have done it before).

It was a good discussion and I'd love to hear more people's opinions one day.

Finally, here are pictures from today which I have camouflaged appropriately in respect of everyone's privacy :-)


Blogroll of the blogs that were represented. It was great to meet everyone!

Trendy Mommy
Show Me The Curry
When did I go from kid to grown up?
Crazy Says What and The Aisle Files
My Inner French Girl

Monday, June 08, 2009

Green nail polish: phthalate free

I know I haven't reviewed any fabulous new products lately, and to be honest, I haven't tried a ton recently, either. But since it is summer, I have been searching for a great phthalate-free toe nail polish. I don't polish my fingernails because it is pointless, I use them as tools too much to waste the polish, which comes off in about 3 hours. I do take care of my feet, though.

It's not just being pregnant that makes me want to avoid toxicity in polish - I was searching for a good phthalate-free polish even before becoming pregnant. My first attempt was Acquarella nail polish, which I ordered from Amazon.com at the steep price of $18. This brand was recommended by Good Housekeeping.

I wasn't too terribly impressed - it wasn't the color I wanted, which is the disadvantage of having to order online. Also, it was watery upon application (it is water-based) and took more coats to get coverage. Surprisingly, it was extremely difficult to remove. Regular nail polish remover didn't really work, it took quite a bit of scrubbing.

What I really wanted was to be able to purchase polish locally so that I could see the colors. I had see the Zoya brand polishes at Whole Foods, but the WF employees could never tell me whether it contained phthalates or not. I had a lot of trouble finding any information about this on the Zoya web site as well. I finally used Google to search Zoya's web site for the word "phthalate" and found that they do claim to be phthalate free on the Zoya blog, I can't even find the blog post now. I would include a picture of the bottle, but their web site has image protection saying all Zoya images are property of Zoya...what?

While it is very weird that Zoya should be so protective of images of their nail polish bottles, I have to say that the nail polish is definitely the winner!! I wore it all week in DC, and aside from some chips that I inflicted myself by putting on shoes too soon after polishing, it held up great. Even better, it is only $5 and comes off easily with regular nail polish remover (I know, I know, I need to get some natural nail polish remover, but I have to use up the old stuff first...what do you want me to do, dump it down the sink??).

The only downside is that Whole Foods doesn't carry the clear polish, so I can't put a base coat and top coat on this eco-friendly polish. That does shorten its lifespan a little, as well as causing my toenails to turn a little yellowish. But, that is what lemon juice is for, I guess...

Friday, June 05, 2009

Washington National Cathedral

Thursday, June 04, 2009

Belly shot Week 21 from DC

Well, today we visited the Capitol, where no bags were permitted, so I
didn't have my iPhone for my daily emailed blog post picture. Now that
we're back in the hotel for a rest before dinner, I thought I'd post a
belly pic from the hotel bathroom.

I really like this cotton maxi dress & sweater from Old Navy maternity
because it was super comfy to walk in all day long, even though this
picture makes me look a little... larger-than-life, shall we say...

Wednesday, June 03, 2009

Smithsonian

Tuesday, June 02, 2009

Lincoln Memorial

Monday, June 01, 2009

Washington monument